Planning a wedding is by no means an easy task. You will try to ensure that whatever you plan is enjoyable for everyone who attends but bare in mind that it should be the most enjoyable for you.

As a couple you will want to have the memories of your wedding day stay with you for as long as you live, which for the majority of your guests will not be the case.

When it comes to sharing your ideas with the people closest to you it'll be best to try keep your emotions out of the discussions. This will be a tall ask obviously but it will be the best way to get great suggestions.

A wedding planning tip often overlooked is that there may be some guests who would love to come to your wedding but might find it financially problematic to do so. You need to look ahead and see if you can't get deals with local hotels for accommodation or to even plan car pools so that out-of-town guests will not have to rent a vehicle.

If you're pressed for time or just don't want to spoil your wedding day by getting into the nitty gritty of dealing with caterers, florists and photographers you could get a package deal from a company that specialises in these areas. Leaving you with the fun stuff to do.

Although giving control over to an unknown person may have you feeling skeptical on whether or not it could work, rest assured wedding planners know their way around weddings and can often get you better deals for your day. You simply have to take the time to tell them what you wish for on your day.

No matter how patient a person you may be or how tolerant, planning your wedding day will be stressful because you'll want everything just right. You can reduce the stress by making detailed lists and being clear about exactly what you want.

Whether you need to hire a wedding planner to plan your entire day or you just need to outsource some of the tasks to family and friends make sure everyone knows exactly what they are supposed to be doing.

This is your special day and should not be hampered by unforeseen problems or last minute tasks that didn't get finished. If you need help, ask for it. If you need an opinion, ask for it but be wary. Remember this is your dream day and whether it comes together well or falls apart before the cake is cut, these are your memories that will last a lifetime.